Last Monday we spent a big chunk of our day talking, role playing and sharing our ideas about friendship. It takes work to be a good friend and we all want to be the best friends we can be.
We learnt about what friendship is. These are some of our main points.
What is friendship?
- Spending time together.
- Sharing ideas and treats.
- Having fun.
- Respecting each other's differences.
- Loyalty, sticking up for each other.
- Caring for each other's safety and wellbeing.
- Both of you working on the skills to keep your friendship going.
We also role played the friendship skills we need to have. They are the following.
How to be a friend!
Always
- Talk - be interesting, keep up with what's going on around you, eg TV, sports, music, shared interests - so that you have something to talk about.
- Share the conversation, so that you each get a chance to be listeners and talkers.
- Listen to what your friends are saying and ask questions about it.
- Praise your friends when they do something well.
- Use your manners - say please and thank you. Friends like to be pleasant to each other.
- Think of yourself as being a friendly person, look friendly and be friendly - and others will find you friendly.
- Be helpful - do things for your friends without keeping a score on who's done the most favours.
- Give back things you have used or borrowed from each other (this is a good idea for brothers and sisters, too).
- Be aware of others' feelings - think before you speak. (Sometimes it is a good idea to keep your thoughts to yourself rather than upset people's feelings.)
- Handle conflict - by being clear about what you want and how you will compromise.
- Share your time with other friends.
- Be honest about your feelings, eg. "I don't think this is a good idea because…" But don't always try to be the leader - try out other people's ideas.
- Try to understand people by thinking about things from their point of view.
- Don't argue and get upset if your friend doesn't agree with you about something. That's O.K. She has the right to an opinion too.
Friendship Role Playing on PhotoPeach
Friendship is Special on PhotoPeach